Adjustments

Life is much more about adjustments than about relationship. Yeah I will explain you why. Whether we are single or married we have to adjust everywhere, be it parents, sister or spouse. Every relationship needs its own space and adjustments. Sometimes we adjust according to our own will but rest of the times we are forced to adjust as we have no option. Yeah I will site you an example – I have got a very busy husband and he always comes home late but I have to adjust and accept things rather than fighting.

Life is much more about adjustments than about relationship. Yeah I will explain you why. Whether we are single or married we have to adjust everywhere, be it parents, sister or spouse. Every relationship needs its own space and adjustments. Sometimes we adjust according to our own will but rest of the times we are forced to adjust as we have no option. Yeah I will site you an example – I have got a very busy husband and he always comes home late but I have to adjust and accept things rather than fighting. Life gives us very few options and its upon us how we make the ultimate out of any situation.

Situations remains the same for everyone but its upon us how we accept and react to it. When a newly married bride enters her new home everything is new for her and she adjusts to everything and accepts her husbands parents as her own. When a kid visits his school for the first time he/she adjusts to the new surroundings, gets habituated and enjoys his new life. When we take a journey to succeed we adjust to each and every situation that comes along our way. Sometimes there are few favorable and unfavorable situations but the person who walks his way during the most unfavorable situation is the one who succeeds.

Life is full of challenges and until and unless we adjust to it we can never be happy. We can never order life according to our own whims and fancies but accept and adjust to the new circumstances.

By Rashmi Priya

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