You all would think what i want to say by starting most talked about topic. Yaar i dont want to add any mirch or masala. I just want to share my views. A well groomed man looking for a nice parner and vice versa has flourished so many businesses. Yeah you see there are thousands of unmarried people and they want to get married and settle down in life but cant find suitable partners. So what they do. There are many websites like shaadi.com , jeevansaathi.com and many more. These sites helps you in finding right life partner and in the meanwhile they make money.
You all would think what i want to say by starting most talked about topic. Yaar i dont want to add any mirch or masala. I just want to share my views. A well groomed man looking for a nice parner and vice versa has flourished so many businesses. Yeah you see there are thousands of unmarried people and they want to get married and settle down in life but cant find suitable partners. So what they do. There are many websites like shaadi.com , jeevansaathi.com and many more. These sites helps you in finding right life partner and in the meanwhile they make money. You see how many corporate houses are flourishing just by helping people get right matches for them. Its not something small its very big and the concept of marriage and bonding is also much greater and bigger than our thinking.
There are many daily soaps running on star plus and they are very popular and there is one new show starting on NDTV Imagine i.e Rakhi Ka swayamvar and it is very popular. They help you in meeting with your soul mate and then its your decision whether you want to marry him or her. It may so happen that you get divorced after just two to three months of marriage but that’s your problem. There are no soaps for showing people who get divorced after marriage and want to enroll again in the list for search, sounds funny na but its true. Yeah i have seen people madly falling in love then fighting with parents to get married. Then after spending a huge sum of money on all customs and traditions, one fine day they find out that he or she is not the right choice and they want to separate. Then divorce and all sorts of stuffs come in to picture and if the wife has conceived in the meanwhile. Husband fights for custody of the baby and things go on and on. Then again another marriage. You wont believe me but there are many people who have married four to five times and are divorced and still searching for the soul mate. Go i cant understand where they will end their search and get hold of a heavenly pari and then settle down.
There are family courts running to solve and discuss all issues of marriage. Then you will find hundreds and thousand of counselors who are really prospering in their business by sorting out all marriage issues. Yeah we all forget that we can really save a lot of money by mutual understanding and talking calmly at home rather than at courts. You see how this search for right partner ends up. Things will be fine if both of them are understanding.
This is not the end there is more to the same old story. Husbands gets attracted to their maids in a fit of moment of madness and have consensual sex and wives find out and want divorce. Then again a few con selling sessions and a break. Really when i sat down to study the whole thing i got so much confused that i left reading and started analyzing God so much confusions. Then also we look for suitable partners and browse our emails and sites thinking we might have got our dream love.
Wow that world of fantasy is so cute and so far away from reality. I just want to sit there and forget about all fuss of marriage and rearing children. It feels so calm and quiet there and also i don’t have to spend even a pie here and i can rest in peace away from reality of hard core world.
By Rashmi Priya