Love and hatred are two faces of the same coin and you will experience both of them. Its never possible that love with exist without hatred. Today’s fast moving life has left no time for merry making or love. We are slaves of the new technology and its really eating in to quality time spend with family and friends. Well we just cannot blame the technology, its we as individuals who decide what we should do at a given time. Its upon us whether we spend quality time with friends or just sit in front of the idiot box or chat with online friends when the other partner is getting bored.
Love and hatred are two faces of the same coin and you will experience both of them. Its never possible that love with exist without hatred. Today’s fast moving life has left no time for merry making or love. We are slaves of the new technology and its really eating in to quality time spend with family and friends. Well we just cannot blame the technology, its we as individuals who decide what we should do at a given time. Its upon us whether we spend quality time with friends or just sit in front of the idiot box or chat with online friends when the other partner is getting bored. There are very few husbands who realize that they need to give a lot of their quality time to their family. I will tell you why because a working male leaves home at 10 Am and is back by 8 Pm or 10 Pm depending on the job profile. When he is back home he is so tired that he is hardly left with any energy to talk. He just want to complete the rest of the left out work and sleep.
Things move the routined way until and unless the wife intervenes and complains. If husband and wife both are working then its really very difficult to spend quality time together. But its not impossible. Its very correctly says “ If there is will there is a way “. Until and unless we leave our egos in the locker we cant spend quality time together. Yeah its true because i have seen that though both the partners are unhappy but they live together just for the sake of living. Guess why ? Because they are married. This way the relationship wont last and things will end soon or will lead to something very unusual i.e extramarital affairs. Its useless playing the blame game. When the thread of marriage is stretched beyond limit it loses its elasticity. Its very important to love each and other and really express the love. You can either say “ I love You “ or pamper your wife with surprised gifts. Its always healthy to love each other on bed. Miracles will happen if you are happy with each other. Because if any one is tensed and strained out then things wont move smoothly.
The relationship of marriage is like a two wheeler if any one of the tires are punctured then the vehicle wont move and the patch needs to be closed. Yeah i have seen many people taking the relationship for granted and thinking what the wife will do. She will just sit at home and complain. But what husbands don’t realize is that their wives can sometimes do things which they never expected. You need to love your wife and give her respect because she has left her paternal home and traveled all the way to the new place and new surroundings. Its the two way business “ Give and take “. You must have read various articles and elders too must have given you a lot of suggestions for happy married life but its you who has to decide as to what you should do for a successful marriage.
The three words I LOVE YOU can do wonders but you should know when to use them. You wont believe me i have seen love marriages ending in divorces. Just think why ? Its just because the hubby forgets to kiss his wife and even tell her that he loves her. He even feels unnecessary to express his love because they both are married now and share the same home and bed then whats the need. The mentality needs to be changed. There will be very less single mothers and divorce if the husband and wife both mend their ways and live a more disciplined life.
Say I LOVE YOU yaar. Whats the harm you should always be expressive about your feelings and let the other person know how much you love her.
Rashmi Priya