Yeah this is most discussed topic in today’s scenario especially when you have got a very busy husband. Our husbands are over burdened with work they leave home at 10 AM and are available only after 9 PM. How will a wife adjust, and especially when she has got a small kid at home crying all the time. The consequences are frequent quarrels and at last divorce. Is this the end of the problem ? No. Wives have got two options either adjust their life or end up the relationship. Ending a relationship is very easy but trying to maintain it is really tough.
Yeah this is most discussed topic in today’s scenario especially when you have got a very busy husband. Our husbands are over burdened with work they leave home at 10 AM and are available only after 9 PM. How will a wife adjust, and especially when she has got a small kid at home crying all the time. The consequences are frequent quarrels and at last divorce. Is this the end of the problem ? No. Wives have got two options either adjust their life or end up the relationship. Ending a relationship is very easy but trying to maintain it is really tough.
Ask the successfully married people and they will tell you how both husbands and wives have adjusted their life so that they could stay together. Both needs to be understanding and we should really stop complaining. There is no ideal day in life when there are no problems. A house wife or a working wife both are busy. One cannot complain that when he am back home he should be comforted by his wife. An understanding husband can take care of every small stuff which will help her wife. She too was busy working at home all the time and she might be overworked. House wives dont get salary for what ever they do but their work cannot be neglected. Husbands work at office peacefully because their wives take care of home.
Everyone is over worked and especially when there is a small baby at home adjusting to the new life is really really difficult. If the husband expects that she should remain awake at night and again get up early morning for all household stuffs its really foolish to expect such a thing. She is also a human being and needs good treatment after all God created both males and females to support each other. We are living in 21st century but our husbands still want to stick to their male egos and listen to their moms who worked like maids till night.
To make a marriage succeed you have to share the work. When we take wows of marriage especially in Hindu system we repeat at the mantras and then forget to apply in our actual life. We might give suggestions to others but we ourselves forget to follow them.
Give your wife freedom and respect and see what wonders will happen at home. I have seen people loving each other for 10yrs then marrying and at last ending their relationship in court. Whats the use ? Was it worth loving each other for 10yrs and then at last ending it. Its better we open our eyes and take every possible step to make our married life successful and create history.
By Rashmi Priya